Between Us · with Noël Tarquinii
Between Us Episode 1: Never let anger pick the date

Never Let Anger Pick the Date

October 04, 2026•1 min read

Season: 1

Episode: 1

Format: Solo, 7 min

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Takeaway: The decision to leave may be right. But the timing should serve you, not your anger.

What this episode covers

Sometimes the move really is to leave. But there’s a difference between making a strategic decision and making a decision in the heat of the moment.

Noël is unpacking what happens after you hit send and why the timing of your exit can matter just as much as the decision itself.

Who this is for

For anyone thinking about quitting and wondering whether they’re leaving for themselves or to make someone else regret losing them.

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Questions people ask

Should you quit an executive job when you're angry?

Sometimes the move really is to leave. But a strategic decision and a heat-of-the-moment decision aren't the same thing, and the timing of your exit matters as much as the exit.

Does it matter when you resign, or just whether you resign?

It matters when. The day you hit send changes your leverage, your money and your story for the next interview.

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Noël Tarquinii

Noël Tarquinii brings 30 years in executive leadership and HR across the U.S., Asia and Europe. She founded HR Armor to show employees what is really happening at work and what to do next.

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